Today I am not going to post any technical related blog, but some reality that really happens in our day to day life. Sometime I really wonder, why people are wasting thier money for taking higher education????????? WHY??????
"When they are not going to change their mentality". Just by taking higher education you are not going to prove that you are really educated, if your mentality is still the same like that of 18th century people.
I really feel hurt when I see some descrimination between girls and boys.Moreover,girls are much better than boys....but still...
WHEN??? I say when people can understand...ki both are SAME....there is no difference between girls and boys...In each and every field GIRLS prove that they are not less than boys....
Some example in our day to day life that hurt a lot :
1. When WOMAN give a birth to GIRL child :
- Some reaction from illiterate people-----OMG.... Ladki hui hai...ufff...bada tension ho gya...Koi ni next time ladka ho jaye ga..sare tension khtm ho jaye gae....
(At that time I feel like...Really??????? Girls are like burden and boys are everything for them.How can any one predict that ki ladke hue toh everything will be fine..Atleast think before you say anything.)
-Some reaction from middle class community- Koi ni ladki ho gyi ...av se hi paise rakhne start kr do DOWRY k liye...
(Uhh...what about her study...someone atleast think about her future,dream.passion etc etc. Why from her childhood every one worry about her marriage...why don't they think if we' ll give her a better education then in future she will be a SELF DEPENDENT Girl....and why save money for DOWRY???? Is there is any boy family saving money for giving it to GIRL's family??? Ni na...why this dowry system only for Girls parents??? ALL the rules and regulation are only implemented to girls not to boys....)
2. DRESS CODES for GIRLS:
I think every one heard this statement in their day to day life..."Ladki ko ye ni pehna chahiye tha....ache kapde pehne chahiye" OK OKAYYY wait wait all the rules and regulations for GIRLS...unko kya pehna chahiye...kaise rehna chahiye...kya padhna chahiye...kya khana chahiye..kya kam krna chahiye...kaise baat krni chahiye...kaise chalne chahiye....and lots of thinggggs...that only tagged with girls...OMMGGG......
In short word I can say GIRLS have lots of restriction in their life...and if we argue with anyone in this topic then they just say "Ladki ki bhalai k liye aisa bola jatata " .....HAHAHA They dont evn crack some good joke...At that time from my bottom of my heart I just wanna say..."Apne PJ apne pass rakhiye"..We dont even tolerate this kind of PJ...
3.Girl's Marraige :
Indian Marriage----At the time marraige Groom's family have lots of demand like Girl should be educated with good marks point to be noted with GOOD MARKS(even their son has back on max paper :D), Girl should be beautiful...bdw this is their 1st priority (even when thier son d worst ever, but still they are expecting for the best...Overconfidence ki daad deni hogi :D), Girl should be fair(son's color is whatever doesn't maater) and so many criteria if I start writting the whole blog will full with their need...just I am explaining 2-3 more like height perfect,should know all the household work, good cook,caring, patience level shuold be high,calm nature(if they say something be calm :D), aaj kal ki latest demand (TraditionaL + Modern ) haha two in one(icecream smjh rakhe hai ) buy 1 get one free....and last but not the least DOWRY...and demand is something like that My son completed his study from very reputed college so lots of money we invest on it...so give all that money that we invest at that time...HOW PEOPLE CAN SAY SOMETHING RUBBISH LIKE THIS....???? Its mean they just give his son higher eduction to get heavy amount in DOWRY???????????? Ufff SAME ON YOU..you dont even know what rubbish you are talking....
4. Drinking & Smoking :
Don't get confuse here...I am still on Girls topic...not change my track...Hmm so these day we can see girls are also started drinking & smoking....and now move towards our society feedback...When boys do these thing..they just say..."koi ni ladka hai...frnds log ne pila diya hoga...but mera beta hai bahhot acha..." Now comes to rection for girls..."Ladki characteless hogi,parents ka respect ni krti hogi,ache family s belong ni krti hogi......dot dot dot" ...What is this?????When boys do these thing then okay...by mistake they did that but when comes to girls they just start abusing them. How can they have two different opinionfor same thing.... why????
I know this is injurious for both girls and boys.....but I am not able to understand why two different opinion....
5.Girls only for household work
So many time you heard that "Ladki hai ghar k kaam aane hi chahiye or krna v chahiye". Why this rule is not for boys????? If anyone say boys earn money thats why...so say now GIRLS also start working then why still everyone expecting ki girls have to do all the household work...either she leave the job or do both thing....Why this is not implemented for boys??? After marraige girl have to leave her family,friends,job evrything.....why only girl'll compromise with her life????
There are so many examples in our daily life where we see descrimination between boys and girls...and only few of them dont do any partiality but maximum girls facing these problems....
I am very LUCKY to have a such a parents who never discriminate between boys and girls...and I appeal to all the people please grow up man...We are living in 21st century please dont implement your old rituals and rules in our life....THERE IS NO DIFFERNCE BETWEEN BOYS AND GIRLS...BOTH ARE SAME...
Please share as you can....Make India free from this discrimination.
© Copyrights Shikha Pathak.
I have read your article,Good.You mail your Article to Editor of PK/HT News paper, They will publish your article in Weekly Paze. People will read at least,
ReplyDeleteBut I know you ,you are in Hurry, so forget this, It will Take some time more and Main things is that Every man want to have a Gulam as of women, Every body want to defeat you in the race of Life and being a women Every body want to grip at you.This is the main problem of our people of Bihar, UP and JH, That is Ego,and it will take long to be down, This state is not good to live even.
Thank you sir for actually reading this..Yes you have nailed it rightly.... Esp. this discrimination problem in Northern states..Here male members of family are supposed to be more important than female members and this type of social attitude is conducive to create the problem of gender discrimination.And the problem is that most of the women are unaware of their basic rights and capabilities.They accept all types of discriminatory practices that persist in our family and society largely due to their ignorance and unawareness....We should at least take a stand to aware them....
DeleteI think there should be a condition with boys if they need dowry to un logo ko educated girl nhe milage and agar educated girl chyee to koi dowry nhe milega..... Is chiz se 2 profit hoga ak to log apne ladke ke padhyege and second Is as obvious...... Dowry is a kind of crus for our society.....somewhere I read that education will menemise the system of dowry but practically it bounse back with double speed..... And one thing if I am not wrong only girls have power to menemise the system of dowry because...... Boys does not have courage to do this.......
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